Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Bee Afraid, Bee Wary or Bee Brave


Are you afraid of bees?  Are you uneasy around bees? Do you hate bees?  I have discovered many people have an unfriendly relationship with bees. While putting some Chicken Codon Bleu on the grill my friend and her husband swatted and killed and exclaimed to each other “smash their guts”, while the rest of us looked on in horror!

I am not afraid of bees. I don’t really bother them and they seem to reciprocate the favor. That is not to say I am going to walk into a hive or nest intentionally. I also don’t walk barefoot around my yard just in case the bees are there and look at my foot akin to Godzilla.


We have lavender that borders our patio. It is beautiful and the bees love it. We have a large patch of catnip in the garden that the bees seem to enjoy when it flowers as much as the cats. With this much bee attraction sitting out side my yard can be challenging to those who are bee adverse. To Bee or not To Bee?

My brother-in-law used to ride a motorcycle often. He said it was very common to have bees hit your mouth, face and nose. His attitude was to become one with the bees and the results would be no bee stings and less ingested or inhaled bees on your ride. It seemed to work for him.


I have mentioned to some friends this Zen like attitude with not always very positive reactions. My conclusion is some people are just flat out scared of bees. They don’t like to be near bees. They are more than uneasy, they go into fight or flight mode!

Recently I invited some friends over for dinner and they asked if we would be eating outside. This is Oregon and when it is sunny we are outside. We have very few bugs or mosquitos so it is very pleasant to sit out doors during the months it is not raining. I asked if that was a problem and their answer was coming to my house to them was like walking into a bees’ nest. We met for Dim Sum.



11 comments:

Joy Weese Moll (@joyweesemoll) said...

I like bees. I get absurd amounts of satisfaction from growing Michaelmas daisies because they bloom in September and are swarmed with bees. The honey from the fall-blooming flowers are what bee keepers leave in the hive for them to live on through the winter, so I feel like I'm providing a vital food source.

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Dianne said...

Bees are of incalculable benefit to the environment, without them we would have no plants or flowers. Most bees, especially the ones in Oregon, are benign and very live and let live little pollinators.

I'm not afraid of bees, but avoid walking into them after my dog was stung on the eyelid last summer when he barged into a lavender bush trying to greet a friend. I do know people who have to carry epi-pens due to severe bee venom allergies.

Nice topic for a summer day.

Cathy said...

Been bitten twice. It felt like my limb was going to fall off. I had to go to the ER. So, yes, I am VERY afraid of bees.

Some people with MS, like me, swear that bee venom helps them. I think it's a scam, like a placebo. But to each their own!

Beverly Diehl said...

Use to have a neighbor who kept a few hives; they never bothered us, and a share of the fresh honey, YUM.

I do remember as a child visiting my sister in Alaska one summer, and bees REALLY liked my feet. Wherever we went, one would find me and crawl in between my sandal and my instep. This was somewhat problematic, though I was never stung until I was in my 30's.

Hornets I'm not so fond of, but love bees.

Haralee said...

Thanks Joy for commenting. I will have to look up that type of daisies!

Haralee said...

Thanks Dianne for commenting. I do feel for people who are allergic. Summer for them must be a dreaded time.

Haralee said...

Cathy, thanks for commenting. Yikes no bees for you, for sure! My husband had 2 spider bites last year and swelled up badly!

Haralee said...

Thanks Beverly for commenting. You are right, hornets are another story all together!

Lori Lavender Luz said...

"become one with the bees"

I like this sentiment and can abide by it with many creatures, bees being among them.

But not wasps or mosquitos. I have a physical revulsion to them that makes me crazy.

Haralee said...

Thanks for commenting Lori. I agree with you. Mosquitoes 100% do not like to be around.